Can a Woman Only Give Simple Seductive Advices? Or Can She Teach PUA Routines? The Post-Modern Woman

As much as women/girls, when asked, like to give their view on this delicate yet essential topic (i.e. Seduction), are they the most capable to identify the secrets of the attraction mechanisms that govern their mind? Many men and PUA(s) (Pickup Artist) sincerely doubt (with reasons) that girls are of any help in the matter. Because basic advices like dress well, smell good, be fun... are quite useless. But things seem to change with the emergence of a new type of woman: The Post-Modern Woman. But, before to describe that new type of woman, let's try to answer the question(s) asked in our title.
I think we can discern 3 possible answers to this question, which correspond to the 3 steps into the reflection process (intuition, doubt, truth) we should all have when it comes to women advice about seduction (and/or dating).
1- The shortest and intuitive answer.
Of course they can, No one can know better what they like/dislike and what turns them on. That's simple reasoning: We want to attract women. They are women. So they are undoubtedly the most qualified to enlighten us on how to properly and effectively seduce them.
2- Really?
The first (intuitive, seemingly logical) answer is usually (but not always as we'll see later) wrong. The best and common example is the nice guy paradox: Women will always say that they want a good guy who likes them and show it, can be caring, gentle, thoughtful... But then, when these «nice guys» present themselves they are dismissed from the 'potential lover' category to the 'friend' one... Let's just be friends (LJBF), they say. And girls go for the «bad guy» as soon as they get the chance to do so.
So, here are the 3 main reasons why women can't help:
a) Logical vs. Emotional Mind.
When trying to answer this question, women use their logical mind. So, to put it simply, instead of describing what really push their (emotional) buttons, they explain what they believe to be attractive in a man. Well, flash news, 90% of the time, their emotional mind isn't in sync with their logical one... At all.
And, please, don't forget that what is emotionally desirable and exciting isn't necessarily logically/socially acceptable and positive for them, their image. It's often quite the opposite. So, don't be so quick to blame them to (don't be helpful but), in reality, don't paint a socially negative portrait of themselves. They don't want to be judged by you nor by themselves as 'bad girls'. 'Society' puts already quite the pressure on them. No need to masochistically add some by themselves.
b) Conscious vs. Unconscious.
When answering, they most likely access the conscious part of their brain, when the truth and real secrets of their attraction 'mechanisms' are essentially UN-conscious. Therefore they cannot be of productive help since they simply don't know what truly and unconsciously seduce/attract them. And this is not exclusive to women. Who objectively know who they really are?
c) The image of the (Alpha) Male.
Finally and honestly, they don't want to help you finding out what makes them 'tic'. Not to knowingly and sadistically prevent you from 'success', but because, deep in the back of their mind, resides the idea that you should be able to discover it by yourself. They want you to correspond to the image of the male they have imprinted in their brain since childhood.
A true (Alpha) Male or a Natural (someone who never read any PUA material yet is very successful with women) doesn't need guidance nor advices. He knows and/or do. He IS (intrinsically and naturally) attractive.
3- The Post-Modern Woman
Why the heck do we need this concept of P-MW for? We already have the Modern Woman who assumes perfectly her sexuality and is more or less free of the guilt/pressure society and men try to put on her... Well, because as much as the MW is sexually independent and open-minded, it doesn't make her more knowledgeable of her own deeper inner desires and fears.
The Post-Modern Woman is...
She is able to, not only accept and embrace her emotional/unconscious mind, but to rationalize, access it and express herself on the subject as well. And this, without shame nor guilt. She's beyond self-recrimination now. So she understands that sharing and unveiling her emotional/attraction processes is perfectly acceptable when properly explained and presented. It's even beneficial for her.
So, that's what she does. She is a sociologist, a psychologist, have followed some psychology/psychoanalysis classes (or read books on the subject)... Or she is a dating & seduction consultant/coach. Meaning she can give you (if you're a man) a direct access to the girls' mind (and pants) through tips, advices, techniques... Even PUA routines.
And, this time, better than what any man (PUA) could do. Now that she is free of her own guilt AND aware of her emotional and unconscious mind, she'll be the greatest seduction teacher, ever. We work with the best (if not only one, due to the uniqueness of the approach) ones.

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